{"id":326,"date":"2025-04-23T12:01:39","date_gmt":"2025-04-23T12:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yakbeetlepress.net\/?p=326"},"modified":"2025-04-28T11:29:04","modified_gmt":"2025-04-28T11:29:04","slug":"from-one-rape-survivor-to-another-stay-strong-amid-missy-woods-scandal-opinion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yakbeetlepress.net\/index.php\/2025\/04\/23\/from-one-rape-survivor-to-another-stay-strong-amid-missy-woods-scandal-opinion\/","title":{"rendered":"From one rape survivor to another: Stay strong amid Missy Woods scandal (Opinion)"},"content":{"rendered":"
Dear fellow survivors,<\/p>\n
With great sadness yet determined resolve, I pen this letter to you.<\/p>\n
Firstly, I need you to know that you are not alone. I see you. I hear you. I believe you. We are in this together, and I am fighting for you.<\/p>\n
I know what it feels like to have your entire life spiral out of your reach, and you can only be a spectator to the show. I know what it feels like to blame yourself and question what you could have possibly done to warrant what you endured. I know how it feels to lose sleep, and jump out of your skin every time the phone rings, or there is a new knock at the door. I know what it feels like to be minimized, invalidated, gaslighted, and scapegoated. Most importantly, however, I know what it is to survive.<\/p>\n
On July 5, 2011, I survived a sexual assault near Gainesville, Florida. Due to the level of violence I endured, no one in Alachua County questioned whether or not I had been assaulted. In the end, the prosecutor on the case decided I wasn’t worth the money it would cost to prosecute the one and only suspect, Michael Alan Frye<\/a>, because he had already been charged with rape in the adjacent Marion County. Frye was convicted of two of his suspected rapes<\/a> and is serving life in prison.<\/p>\n But I’ve spent 14 years since that day<\/a> trying to calculate the cost of a human soul. A part of me died that day, and there is no amount of money on Earth that can bring her back.<\/p>\n Florida failed me, just as Colorado has failed to process DNA collected from rape survivors in a timely way.<\/p>\n The backlog includes more than 1,700 rape kits at the Colorado Bureau of Investigation but that isn\u2019t the whole story. There are kits stuck at municipal labs and local labs that serve the major metro areas like Colorado Springs. None of the backlog funding CBI has received thus far will reach municipal labs. Survivors \u201cunlucky\u201d enough to have a kit sent to a municipal lab or to be caught in the unfunded portion of CBI\u2019s backlog have no relief coming.<\/p>\n